学为贵托福培训项目部提供：托福新思维|你的朋友对你诚实吗？

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　　托福新思维

　　一档关于最新托福考试

　　写作新思路的Talk Show.

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　　托福新思维想解决的问题是广大托福考生的一大痛点，那就是面对写作题目，没想法，没思路，没话可说，没的可写。

　　同时我们对考试回顾这个显然是更严肃，更认真，更深刻，我们不仅把好的思路分享给你，同时还会把基于这个思路的满分作文分享给你。

　　能做到这一点是因为我们有最专业的托福团队支持有价值的内容，在托福行业我们很自信的说是独树一帜。

　　本周我们分享的主题是5月6日的托福独立写作，下面的托福新思维将为你娓娓道来。

　　托福新思维第七讲

　　It is impossible to be completely honest with your friends

　　我们不可能总是对朋友诚实

　　从个人角度来说，保护个人隐私

　　大多数人们都会因为安全感保护自己的隐私，隐私一旦被泄漏，作为独立个体的人，都会感到不自在，比如人们不会把自己有多少钱、表白被拒和一些功利的私心等告诉朋友，甚至是最亲密的朋友。

　　从社会角度来说，善意的谎言也是谎

　　为了维系友谊和在朋友遇到困难的时候鼓励他们，人们往往会说一些白色谎言。比如面对一个学习很差的朋友，鼓励他好好学习，就会说：“你是最优秀的。”，这些话可能不是真实的，但是可以起到宽慰朋友的心的作用。

　　从职业角度来说，利工作主义至上

　　朋友从事各行各业，在聊天的过程中，难免会谈到工作，但涉及到商业机密的事情，比如客户信息、工艺制作流程和国家机密等，对再好的朋友也要隐瞒，否则后果不堪设想。泄密这些事件的人，严重者会遭到法律的惩罚。

　　满分范文

　　We value honesty in our relationships and we keep saying that being honest is a requisite for friendship. But is it possible to be a hundred percent honest with our friends? My answer is simply no because there are conceivably（令人信服的）times when we can hardly resist the temptation（诱惑）to conceal（隐藏）the the truth from even the closest friends. The basis of my view is personal, social and professional.

　　Personally, we just cannot honestly give away（泄密）our privacies. This is because we humans instinctively（本能地）seek to（寻找）procure security , or at least, the sense of it. This need for the feeling of safety not only requires us to avoid potential dangers and risks,  but also makes it natural for us to avoid the feeling of concern and unease（不安）。 We do not feel at ease to tell our friends how much money we make. We do not find it naturally comfortable to inform our friends of the humiliation（丢脸） we get when rejected by the person we love. We simply feel uneasy by doing so.

　　From a social point of view, we have to tell some white lies（善意的谎言）to be a friend. Life is harsh and the reality often hurts. This is why we need friends. Friends lift our spirits up when we are feeling down, give us heart to face up to difficulties, and always comfort（宽慰）us when things turn out wrong. So we, as friends, tell people "you are the best", "everything is going to be fine" and even "we are always there for you."  It is true that we hope so, but it does not make it true to say so.

　　Professionally speaking, we cannot share business secrets with our friends. We do have friends working for different employers. In that case, it is imaginable（可想象的）that some of our friends may ask about the our business: “How do you make it?” “From what sources you get your customers?” and so on. To be professionally responsible, we have to refuse those questions and keep the secrets. A lawyer, for instance, cannot leak（泄漏）his clients’ information to his friends; a politician is not allowed to share with his friends the documents concerning（关于）national security.

　　In conclusion, everyone has privacy, everyone need to comfort friends and everyone should respect（尊重）their professional values. Therefore, even though we should be honest with our friends, it is hardly possible to seek pure honesty in any relationship.

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